By Lynn, on February 3rd, 2008%
I have to work this evening, but we had a wonderful morning this morning. I took a walk through the garden before I left for work.
I had a bag of almonds that somehow I did not finish. (That’s unusual.) Anyway, they are getting too old, so I took them out to the squirrels. At least someone can enjoy them.
The hellebores are starting to bloom.
I love to take a daily walk through the garden. I have big plans for this year, Lord willing. I want to re-landscape some areas that have just gotten plain unsightly, in my opinion. Still, the garden has great bones, so it’s always fun to get outside and walk through it — and dream.
I noticed that the hyacinth are poking through the ground. Yay!
There’s a tiny — and I mean tiny — stone path that I put in an area of the garden. It is now covered with moss. I love to take the few steps that are required to walk down it. It takes you to the best climbing tree ever…
Jasper walks with us through the garden and then runs out to the warm pavement to lie down.
I could stay out here all day, and have done so many times when life gave me a day to do what I wanted to with it.
But it’s time to go in. I love the view from the very front gate that welcomes people into the garden.
Now I get to go work with bread that smells wonderful, people who have many questions about nutrition, vitamins, supplements, fruits, vegetables, and even windchimes, water barrels and plants.
Have a glorious Sunday!
Lynn
By Lynn, on February 3rd, 2008%
I was thinking tonight about being a leader. Being a good leader.
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I have noticed in my years of working outside of the home that not everyone can rise up and be a leader. Some people are born leaders. Then there are other people who make up their minds that they need, or want, to lead and they teach themselves to become leaders. And some people, no matter how hard they try, simply cannot elicit the enthusiasm and respect from a group of people to drive them toward a common goal. Some people just cannot lead.
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There have been famous people who, despite their personal failures, would have been followed by their men to the ends of the earth, simply because of their ability to incite a common desire to achieve a goal.
I was thinking tonight about the qualities I admire in a leader.
- Honesty. I admire a leader who can graciously say the truth, tell what needs to be done, and deliver it without making it a personal attack or hiding behind someone else. My respect is diminished for a person who is afraid to fulfill their responsibilities and must make up a reason for what they are asking you to do.
- Steadfast commitment. When a group of people are working together, one strong person who is unwavering in their commitment to the common goal can bring about hard work, noble deeds, and even great acts of courage from others who have it in their hearts to reach the goal.
- Someone humble enough to give place to the wisdom of the others.
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- Singleness of mind. When working towards an important goal, getting sidetracked with thoughts of things going on in another time and another place is not helpful. Of course, there’s no place for the cruel dismissal of others’ needs, but in the end, the person who leads with singleness of mind is priceless. I can think of quite a few times in my life where I had an initial respect for my superior only to lose it upon finding that they were unable to keep embarrassing, unnecessary personal details of their lives out of their conversations and stay away from conversations that had nothing to do with the large task at hand.
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Perhaps you are wondering what has me thinking of all this. Honestly, I have watched a coworker struggle with leadership and I have wondered at the reasons.
That, in turn, set me to thinking about how I lead my children. Yes, my husband is the head of our home, but a mother certainly has a role to play in leading the children and running the home. Do I accept my situation and stay focused on the end goal? Do I know what the end goal is? Do I keep my personal complaints and disappointments in their appropriate places, or do I cloud my children’s learning with mixed messages that include having to focus on aspects of my personal feelings that they shouldn’t necessarily have to deal with?
And homeschooling. I believe whether we are unschooling, pursuing a classical education, or doing a very eclectic mix of things, there must be leadership involved.
I have asked myself tonight: how am I doing?
I hope I’m being a good leader.
Lynn
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About Lynn
I am the mother of four delightful children: a 23-year-old son, a 20-year-old son, a 17-year-old son, and a bright and bubbly 13-year-old daughter. I share an apartment home with my 17-year-old son and 13-year-old daughter. My little home on the internet is called Rose Cottage because of my love for gardening, roses, and all things romantic and Victorian. Welcome.
I'm a North Carolina girl and I love sharing North Carolina links and information. I do medical transcription from home. My hobbies include making sweet little dolls from clay who are named and have their own stories to tell. I also make old-fashioned brooches. These are for sale in my Etsy shop.
For 13 years continuously, I homeschooled some or all of our four children, but the time came that our homeschool had to be closed. It was the end of a beautiful chapter in my life. I will always be a strong supporter of homeschooling and I will continue to review books and maintain my homeschool website, The Healthy Homeschool. The Players
Lil Ol' Me
Son Daniel, 23
Son, Big Joe, 20
Son, John, 17
Daughter, Michaela, 13
Annie Fatso Beagle
My Symphony
To live content with small means; to seek elegance rather than luxury, and refinement rather than fashion; to be worthy, not respectable, and wealthy, not rich; to study hard, think quietly, talk gently, act frankly; to listen to stars and birds, to babes and sages, with open heart; to bear all cheerfully, do all bravely, await occasions, hurry never. In a word, to let the spiritual, unbidden and unconscious, grow up through the common. This is to be my symphony.
William Henry Channing
1810-1884
What You Do Sow a thought, reap an action.
Sow an action, reap a habit.
Sow a habit, reap a character.
Sow a character, reap a destiny.
Contact Me 
I would  for you to leave a comment, but you can also e-mail me at lynn AT thehealthyhomeschool.com
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